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Mentally Exhausted: 3 Ways to Self-Regulate Your Energy
There are a lot of parallels between cars and people. For example, if you want want to drive somewhere you can’t do it with a broken-down engine and a gas tank that’s empty. The same goes for achieving your dreams. Your mind is our body’s intellectual and emotional engine which is the core for your success. You need to protect it from a breakdown or blowing a gasket from becoming mentally exhausted.
The thing is, you often don’t want to think about yourself in this way. You say “I’ll sleep when I’m dead” or “Just one more thing before I go to bed”.
You are really good at going 90 mph without a breakdown or ticket – until you crash. Here’s the thing – you can’t change the oil in a moving car but this is what you try to do. You committee to taking action and to start work towards your dreams then suddenly it’s 8 PM and you’re brain dead. You can’t work on what you want to work on because you are mentally exhausted.
I know this because I’ve been there. Below are a few ways I’ve learned to lay off of the gas pedal.
1. Give Yourself a Ticket: Admit it. You know you’re speeding. You see the signs and you know you’re going 10 or 15 mph over the speed limit. Now look at your life. Is your to-do list crazy? Do you see any unscheduled time on your calendar? Did you just read this article and forgot what it was about? Then write yourself a ticket! The fine? Unplug from Facebook, take a bath, read a book, work out to burn off that extra energy. Do whatever you need to that slows you down. Spend some time in solitude.
2. Change Your Oil: You just went through an entire month that was crazy busy and you have no idea what you did. Take 4 hours or 8 hours, whatever is possible, and step back to reflect on what you accomplished. Reflect on what worked and what didn’t then plan for next month. You’ll be amazed at all you’ve accomplished.
3. Let Someone Else Drive: You are used to being in charge. You don’t like the way other people drive and you’re a horrible back seat driver. The good news is that you’re not responsible for running the world so stop trying! When you get the chance be part of the team at work instead of being in charge. Let someone else gain an opportunity to showcase their leadership abilities and take a break.
How will you apply these tips to put an end to your mental exhaustion today?
13 comments
Kristin Watson
Are you reading my journal?!?! LOL Thanks for the reminder…
mydr4228
Shhh! Don’t tell anyone 🙂 Glad you enjoyed it Kristin.
Michele Giletto
Wow! You got me with this one. I could really relate to the analogy and appreciate the practical advice? We DON’T always need to drive and we DO need to recognize what we’ve done instead of dwelling on the to-do. I have begun keeping a list of completed tasks on a big white board in my office for exactly this reason. It tempers me from feeling overwhelmed by the to-do list.
mydr4228
Thank you Michele for your feedback and for sharing how you reflect on what you’ve done during the month. When you have a system in place it makes things so much easier!
Mandy
Ahhh! The never ending to do list! You must be sharing my planner…Love the car racing analogy. Creative new way to look at an ongoing problem. Thanks for posting!
mydr4228
Mandy glad you enjoyed it! Thank you for your comment.
Ann
What a fabulous post!
Great insight and focus. I especially appreciated the parts about “giving myself a ticket” (to have little purposeful consequences at those time when I know I’m off-kilter) or the analogy about taking time for even 4 or 8 hours to “change the oil” in my life, before it’s too late.
Great to see this new Dream Catalyst taking off. (And what a great photo for your header!) Keep up the great work . . . and trust that all of YOUR DREAMS in launching this new “baby” will get a lot of us moving forward.
Thanks!
mydr4228
Thank you for your insight & encouragement Ann! So glad the analogies hit home 🙂
Joyce Heiser
I take a day of rest from my computer every week. I turn it off before bed on Saturday night and don’t turn it on again until Monday morning.
mydr4228
Thank you for sharing Joyce! that’s a great way to unplug.
Ann Marie G
Exactly where I’m at, exactly what I needed to hear! great Rx! Thanks!
mydr4228
Glad you could relate Ann Marie and that this was helpful to you 🙂